Living in an urban area I, like many, exercise in the park. I was doing so before the pandemic started and I have continued. My local park is big and beautiful and is seeing a higher level of use now that the gyms are closed. It feels safe and reasonable except for one thing: the runners who brush past on the paved trails. They are too close; many runners are making no effort to distance from others who use the same trails. This is not good enough.
Runners, please run farther away from the other people who use public trails. In most cases you can run off trail to give people, especially elders, a wide berth. Consider it part of your workout. Elders are much less able to avoid you than you are to avoid them. Running up behind people does not give them an opportunity to avoid you. There are sections of trail that are restricted in width--you can choose different routes. Some runners have taken to running on sidewalks and side streets to avoid too-close pedestrians. This is reasonable and appreciated, and might make it possible for you to enter that thoughtless consciousness that some runners enjoy.
If you are young or Republican and "not worried" about the virus, that does not make it acceptable for you to frighten or expose others. A certain amount of kindness is expected just because you are part of the human family. Thoughtlessness and selfishness are not admirable, and I don't think anyone wants to be that way. We all have the potential to be better than that, to be conscientious and caring in our interactions with each other. So please, runners, take the extra steps to let all people have a minimum of six feet distance, no matter who they are. I for one thank you for this kindness.
I have often said "it's a free will universe" as a basis for extolling choice as a power, whether conscious or unconscious, for determining your experience. To "choice" I always connect the concept of responsibility. Responsibility always follows immediately upon choice. Those who tremble before this power of choice may even habitually refuse to make choices, unwilling to take on the responsibility that choice of necessity implies. This is a choice in itself, a pattern of omission and passivity with it's own distinct effects and power to manipulate. All this having been said, what if in fact it's not "a free will universe" after all? The concept of "predestination" also has a long history in philosophical and religious thought and stands as a counterpoint to "free will" with it's own ardent supporters. When I look at an average day, things happen and I respond. Needs arise and I must act. My breath and heartbeat and peristalsis are events occurring to me, gifts freely given from what great source I cannot truly fathom. I won't pretend to resolve here a millennia-long question. And in the face of it, perhaps, at the very least, we might choose with lighter hearts, and enjoy the uncertainty knowing that our every action is effected upon waves of permission from powers greater than our own. --Gil Hedley, Integral Anatomy
Here are the 5 skills that set serial entrepreneurs apart from everyone else. Based on these one can predict with 90% accuracy who will become a serial entrepreneur:
1) Persuasion (get others to say yes)
2) Leadership (get others do do stuff)
3) Personal accountability (takes charge and takes responsibility)
I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do. --Robert A. Heinlein
notes from November OFJ lecture by Jacqueline J West, PhD The Shadows and Gifts of American Narcissism Friday 11/12/10 organized via www.ofj.org also some notes on Narcissism taken from a variety of sources ( tidbits feed ideas about American apathyCollapse )
This canine is impressively habituated to whitewater river running. I've had one river dawg myself, and I've run a few rivers with other people's river dawgs, but I've never seen anything quite like this. The dog swims downstream through some pretty good whitewater, and when it comes to a shallow drop it lands on the rocks that form the drop, then jumps off the downstream side back into the current. There's an outrage brewing about it in the local canoe club, but frankly I think that the responsible dog owner is probably giving his dog a better life than the average locked-indoors alone all day dog.
I felt some loneliness the first week I was here. But now, no. I have enough acquaintances to not feel lonely. The landlady, Marie, speaks English and her bf is American. And her niece, Emma, also…
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